Wednesday 28 March 2012

“The evil you do remains with you: The good you do, comes back to you!”


A woman baked chapatti (roti) for members of her family and an extra one for a hungry passerby. She kept the extra chapatti on the window sill, for whosoever would take it away. Every day, a hunchback came and took away the chapatti. Instead of expressing gratitude, he muttered the following words as he went his way: “The evil you do remains with you: The good you do, comes back to you!” This went on, day after day. Every day, the hunchback came, picked up the chapatti and uttered the words: “The evil you do, remains with you: The good you do, comes back to you!” The woman felt irritated. “Not a word of gratitude,” she said to herself… 
“Everyday this hunchback utters this jingle! What does he mean?” One day, exasperated, she decided to do away with him. “I shall get rid of this hunchback,” she said. And what did she do? She added poison to the chapatti she prepared for him! As she was about to keep it on the window sill, her hands trembled. “What is this I am doing?” she said. Immediately, she threw the chapatti into the fire, prepared another one and kept it on the window sill. As usual, the hunchback came, picked up the chapatti and muttered the words: “The evil you do, remains with you: The good you do, comes back to you!” The hunchback proceeded on his way, blissfully unaware of the war raging in the mind of the woman. 
Every day, as the woman placed the chapatti on the window sill, she offered a prayer for her son who had gone to a distant place to seek his fortune. For many months, she had no news of him.. She prayed for his safe return. That evening, there was a knock on the door. As she opened it, she was surprised to find her son standing in the doorway. He had grown thin and lean. His garments were tattered and torn. He was hungry, starved and weak. As he saw his mother, he said, “Mom, it’s a miracle I’m here. While I was but a mile away, I was so famished that I collapsed. I would have died, but just then an old hunchback passed by. I begged of him for a morsel of food, and he was kind enough to give me a whole chapatti. As he gave it to me, he said, “This is what I eat everyday: today, I shall give it to you, for your need is greater than mine!” ” As the mother heard those words, her face turned pale. 
She leaned against the door for support. She remembered the poisoned chapatti that she had made that morning. Had she not burnt it in the fire, it would have been eaten by her own son, and he would have lost his life! It was then that she realized the significance of the words:
“The evil you do remains with you: The good you do, comes back to you!” 
Do good and Don’t ever stop doing good, even if it is not appreciated at that time. 

Tuesday 27 March 2012

HR Diary: Life is a do-it-yourself project!!!

HR Diary: Life is a do-it-yourself project!!!: An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer contractor of  his plans to leave the house building business and live a more...

Life is a do-it-yourself project!!!

An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer contractor of 
his plans to leave the house building business and live a more leisurely 
life with his wife enjoying his extended family. 

He would miss the paycheck, but he needed to retire. They could get by. The 
contractor was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build 
just one more house as a personal favor. 

The carpenter said yes, but in time it was easy to see that his heart was 
not in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior 
materials. It was an unfortunate way to end a dedicated career. 

When the carpenter finished his work the employer came to inspect the house. 
He handed the front-door key to the carpenter. ‘This is your house,’ he 
said, ‘my gift to you.’ The carpenter was shocked! What a shame! 

If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it 
all so differently. So it is with us. 

We build our lives, a day at a time, often putting less than our best into 
the building. Then with a shock we realize we have to live in the house we 
have built. 

If we could do it over, we’d do it much differently. But we cannot go back. 
You are the carpenter. 

Each day you hammer a nail, place a board, or erect a wall. ‘Life is a 
do-it-yourself project,’ someone has said. Your attitudes and the choices 
you make today, build the ‘house’ you live in tomorrow.